The good

Love is such a "loaded" word! A multi-faceted word, a multi-dimensional word with a definition that is often blurred and intention that is commonly misunderstood.

I have thought that although many speak of love, many do not understand love. Where in one moment, a man can be "spouting sonnets" and the next, he's "spinning excuses" or "spitting tacks"... and and wadya know... you're not Cinderella anymore, you're back to just being the hired help. Lol.

I hear there is a very thin line between love and hate. How true that is! In a relationship, love is its origin, its energy, and then sometimes, its own demise.

How quickly we fall into and out of love. But then if that is so, was it really love in the first place? It looked like it, it felt like it, and it sure as hell hurt like it. So that wasn't love? Hmmm... whats so eternal about love? I know the answer, but do you?

And is there really only one soulmate out there for each of us. (Geez, I sure hope not! Otherwise, I've missed that bus). I'd like to think there are many possible "soulmate" types of people out there in this huge wide world, many that you can be compatible with. And a few, that you have real connection with. So just choose one already right? Hmmm... not so easy huh! Gain comes with risk.

And do opposites really attract? What is up with that? Wouldn't you need some commonalities to first connect with and then build an attraction from? When filing for divorce, isn't "irreconcilible differences" usually the main reason. What is so attractive about that!

And my goodness... what is it with people that try to keep their options open? Yknow, play the field in the game of "love" (and i mean that in inverted commas). Funny how a guy can be totally convinced of his so-called "love" for you, yet be waiting on the "green light" from another poor girl (or victim I should say). Thank God that not all girls are "easy targets", keeping these fools in check! Honestly guys, really?! Deep down what you do is a cover for deep-seated insecurities... boyeee... you better check yourself before you wreck yourself! hahaha


to be continued....